Self help is something many people struggle to do, as many people rely upon others to sort out their problem or to blame other people as to why they are having such a hard time.
Knowing your problem in life could be causing you to feel an emotional wreck suffering from deep sadness, anger and so on. So the solution to your problem is some time you just have to let go. Some time you are worried because of some other person. That person can be any one. She/He can be your friend, relative or colleague anyone. You don’t want to see them or meet them. So the best solution for these kinds of people is to forgive them and forget. Reason to forgive them is by forgiving them you cut all negative cords from that person. And when you have completely forgiven that person you will feel that now no matter what that person is doing. You don’t actually care.
But now the next question how will you get to know that you have forgiven that person. So Answer to this question is….
Till the time you are not behaving in a very calm manner and relax if the same situation or may be the worst situation comes in front of you how are you reacting. But it does not mean that if a person keep on repeating the same thing and you just forgiving that person thinking that he/she will change. No this is not right some time you have to take a little harsh or may be strong step to make that person realize that they are doing wrong. But be sure that you do not cross your limit that later you feel guilty what have you done.
As said words are like bullets so be careful what comes out of your mouth. Don’t do anything wrong in anger.